Soulmates

 I mentioned being a believer in predestined stories/life paths and that every decision we make and every step we take has already been written in stone. I believe we all have a destined life partner, someone that is a very good compatible match for us, if not perfect but not everyone gets to find their perfect other half.

My soulmate theory is basically that on this earth we have many suitable matches, we have many people that we can start a relationship with, continue into marriage and have some hiccups along the way and we have a few people that bring with them less hiccups. These people all differ in how suitable they are to us, one can be a 50% match, one can be a 70% match and one can be a 30% match. A 30% match is not someone I would advise anyone to marry but sometimes you just might not meet anyone else. 50% upwards I would say is the safe zone because people grow, someone can grow from being 50% or even a 30% compatibility for you to being in the 80% zone due to hard work and learning. I firmly believe everyone on this earth has someone that is in the 80%-90% zone, this person is your soulmate. This person is your soulmate because, they have most if not all your boxes ticked already, they bring to the table all that you require of the opposite, if not same sex and growth is still possible. There is still room for development.

Meeting the individual that is in the 80% zone upwards is not a given and only a few people actually achieve this. Many life factors come into meeting our perfect match. What school we go to, friendship groups, holidays we take, jobs we do, buses we take…basically taking the same turns simultaneously as your soulmate. Every daily life choice we make links to where we end up and who we meet but then everyone knows that already. These choices make it easier or harder for both of you to meet along the way and you might experience supposed coincidences, that weird situation that led you to meeting the person that you cannot begin to explain. That is the universe and the stars aligning for your better good.

Your soulmate (80% upwards) might make bad life decisions and end up being a drug addict, murderer, a high school drop out, anything that you do not want in a life partner basically and it is possible that you actually meet them during your life at a certain point but you will not look at the person in the way of wanting to know them better because you could be better off and look down upon them as they do not fit the image you want or you have found somebody else. You could be a lawyer, a doctor and they could be a homeless person begging for money so the way you approach and look at them will not be in the way of “oh let’s see where this goes”.

Other suitable matches are good enough for you or can grow to be the person you want, people have potential but most people want the person that has reached a certain stage in life before giving them a look in and some people just settle, sometimes it is all about taking a risk.

Potential life partners walk among us everyday, sometimes all it takes it a hi or mistakenly staying longer on the bus than your are supposed to; everything in this life links. It is not a given that you will meet the perfect already made match unless the straw you drew was long enough or God decides to give you a new storyline.

Hak Gway